I think everyone has somebody whom they have a special bond to and many also face having this person separated from one by both time and space. I am lucky enough to have a few of these ppl whose friendships I find myself in lack of words of describing the value of. Some of these friends are close enough to brighten up my day by their physical presence, but there are some who are on the other side of the ocean, the continent or the globe. It pains me not being able to see, speak and hug them whenever I want or need to, but knowing and confirming over and over again that our friendship is still just as strong, soothes me and gives me tranquility.
No matter where I am in the world, there will always be someone missing; someone I wish could be closer. The inevitable fact that ppl of the globe are endlessly fluctuating makes this impossible no matter how much I wave my magic wand. Therefore one needs to enjoy and take care of the moments one gets to spend with these magnificent ppl who bring that magic sparkle to your life.
I had a long conversation online with one of these unimaginable uniquely fantastic ppl whom I am forever grateful to have in my life. To be able to sit in separate corners of the world sharing global concerns, hilarious stories and mutual excitement and interest in events occurring in each other's lives is pretty great. Who would ever know that it took the point of view from someone across the deep blue sea to give me the right perspective and untangle the knots that were tightening by the minute?
Little did I know when I left Norway in 2005 for a year abroad in the US, that I would meet a handful of ppl who would influence me in numerous ways and change my life forever and become some of my closest and dearest friends? Life absolutely works in mysterious ways and I'm glad it's a mystery. If we already knew all the answers, then the clues and the guidelines along the way would become insignificant objects and happenings which we did not have to ascribe meaning. We would not been given the adventurous opportunity to seek knowledge, experience and gratitude in the smaller things we are unable to neglect due to our constant curiosity and need for answers. Let life be a mystery and unravel it alongside your friends.
Thank you for being a part of my journey thru life.
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